{"id":216,"date":"2017-05-02T19:14:37","date_gmt":"2017-05-02T23:14:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wealthisadecision.com\/blog\/?p=216"},"modified":"2017-05-31T16:48:57","modified_gmt":"2017-05-31T20:48:57","slug":"your-answer-for-temper","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wealthisadecision.com\/blog\/your-answer-for-temper\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Answer for Temper"},"content":{"rendered":"

A hot-tempered man stirs up strife, but he who is slow to anger quiets contention.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s take a moment to understand the value of temper. You probably know someone who has a bad temper!<\/p>\n

A bad temper is destructive to people around you and to yourself. However, acknowledging your bad temper and dealing with it can be constructive to your life.<\/p>\n

Temper IS Energy<\/h3>\n

Temper is a burst of energy, it’s what you do with it that matters. It can destroy and break your life. Failed ambition causes a person temper to arouse, which causes frustration. You can make a decision to harness the strength from that burst of energy and direct it towards an end goal.<\/p>\n

Temper in your Thoughts<\/h3>\n

Remember, temper can be controlled with positive life giving constructive thoughts. The key is to pre-set your mind with well managed thoughts of what you want to accomplish. Stay focus on your mental attitude and see the end from the beginning.<\/p>\n

Constructive Temper<\/h3>\n

So don\u2019t loose it when situations heat up. SLOW DOWN. Take a deep breath, walk away from the situation, break away from the conversation. Do not let it control you. Retract your thinking become grateful. Compliment a person, give praise and it will break the negative cycle.<\/p>\n

The benefits of a controlled temper is it\u2019s driving force packed with strength and endurance. Your response to temper depends on your ability to control the reaction with positive thoughts. Be aware of the potential out of control reaction<\/p>\n

Destructive Temper<\/h3>\n

On the other side, temper with anger or rebellion is destructive to your mind, body and people. It can be a fire burning out of control. Or, a thorn in the flesh to jeopardize your life. In any case thorns are uncomfortable to the flesh. It’s a natural act of dis-ease or rot to your spirit man. \u00a0I do not recommend you suppress temper, it jumps out with vengeance. “Do not be overcome by a\u00a0bad temper, but overcome a bad temper with good.”<\/p>\n

Temper creates energy<\/h3>\n

A soft answer turns away harsh words, but harsh words stirs up anger.
\nYou know, if you have a temper and what sets it off. I recommend a little positive self talk. Be honest with yourself face the truth and you will be freed from hidden darkness. Make mental rules for your mind so it knows how to redirect temper. You can use a temper flare up as strength and energy.<\/p>\n

Use your energy in a positive way<\/h3>\n

Successful people are known for their high temper. However they have learnt how to think before they react. At the same time gleam the positive aspects of energy to do more in life. Be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.<\/p>\n

Action Steps<\/h3>\n